Some
women are just out there waiting to be hit on, and they’re
sending signals. You just have to pick up on the signals, then
striking up a conversation is a piece of cake because that’s
what the woman was waiting for from anybody. It might as well
be you!
Go
someplace where people hang out, like a bar or bookstore. If
there’s a woman at the bar who’s just sort of looking
bored, who keeps looking around the room or even getting up
to walk around the room, that woman is looking for action. Go
up to her and comment on something about the place, like “Hi.
It sure is quiet in here tonight.” Or “Hi, I can’t
believe how packed this place is.” She was just waiting
for someone to talk to, and this is all she’ll need to
be off and running. Let her lead and follow along! Maybe throw
in a comment like, “What’s a beautiful woman like
you doing sitting here all alone?” Don’t say that
at first, because women hear cheesy lines like that all the
time. But if you say it a few minutes after conversation has
started, it erases any doubt from her mind as to whether you’re
hitting on her or you’re just someone who’s making
idle conversation but not looking to meet. Give her the cheesy
pick-up line that includes a compliment – and women love
compliments! – and she’ll know what you’re
after.
At
a bookstore, check out the chicks over by the magazine racks.
If there’s one who just keeps browsing titles, idly picking
up a mag and flipping through the pages, all the while looking
around to check out the other people there – that’s
a gal just waiting for someone to take notice of HER. Do it,
and you’ll find a woman ready and willing to talk to you
– and probably hoping you’ll ask for her number!
Just
go up to her, tell her the magazine she’s reading looks
interesting, or that you already read that and there’s
a great article in there, or (if it’s a woman’s
magazine) that you’ve been tempted to read “Cosmo”
or whatever it is just to see what kind of stuff those mags
tell women. Ask her if she thinks men would find any useful
information about women in there. She’ll be off and running
with stories of how silly the articles are, or how they might
be interesting to men. Talk a while, and then ask her to sit
down for coffee to chat more. Then ask for her number. She was
looking to meet, so she’ll be more than willing to hand
over those digits!
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